My grandma spent years putting everyone else's happiness first. When she finally dared to want something for herself, one neighbor's cruel words shattered her confidence. Six months later, that same neighbor showed up at her door, determined to hurt her again. My grandma was 52 when our parents died, leaving her with three boys who ate like grown men and still cried for their mom at night. She learned to tape hockey sticks, scrub grass stains out of baseball pants, and stretch a pot of chili through the weekend. When I outgrew my cleats halfway through a season, new ones appeared beside my bed. That winter, I caught her gluing the sole back onto her own shoe. "These still have plenty of life in them," she told me. That was Grandma. If we needed something, she found a way. We grew up, found jobs, and moved out. We called, visited, and invited her over. But after almost 20 years of someone shouting "Grandma!" from another room, she was eati...