I didn’t say yes because I believed love would fix him. I said yes because my home had grown so quiet that the silence felt heavy, like it was pressing in on me. I knew that kind of quiet too well. Mine came from grief that had settled in slowly. His, I would later understand, came from vigilance—silence that learned how to survive. When the social worker first mentioned him, her pause said more than her words. “He’s nine,” she said, watching me closely. “And he hasn’t spoken in years. Not to anyone.” I took a breath and nodded. “Most people change their minds once they hear that,” she added softly. “I won’t,” I answered. Her name was Maribel. She had seen hope burn out in people’s eyes before, so she studied mine carefully. “I just want you to be sure,” she said. “This won’t be easy.” “I know,” I replied. “I’ve lived with hard things.” After three miscarriages and a marriage that fell apart under the weight of shared loss, I had learned how absence reshapes a perso...